7.07.2005

and why and why and why

my mom came over to see the new apartment today, and bonded with the animals (they fell asleep in a heap on her lap while she sat on the couch).

during the course of conversation she looked at me and asked if she'd told me who had called our house around christmas time. i said "nooo....ooo..........." and just by the glint in her eyes i already knew. i already knew. she said rafo had called the house, she'd answered and hadn't known who it was and he'd replied "iiiiiiiiiiiiit's RAFOOOOOOOOOOOOO!" in typical him fashion.

apparantly he'd just called to wish Everyone a merry christmas and asked my mom to tell each of us merry christmas from him individually. she said she would (and then didn't).

ok.........what the crap. who does that? who calls their ex-girlfriend's mother five years later to say merry christmas? not just any ex-girlfriend, but the one you cheated on and then proceeded to dump for another girl? seriously! why????

strangely enough i don't find myself furious or ranting and raving. i don't know if i'm ready to talk to him again or not. i feel like the past few times he's come in to pizza hut (which i wasn't there for) i thought i was okay but as soon as i heard he'd been there i kind of freaked out a little.

so who knows? i gave mom permission to hand out my # if he should happen to call up again out of the blue.

i don't know if this counts as "christmas in july" or not.

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